Sex is Good

Sex is good. That feeling of having sexual intimacy with the opposite sex is really good. 

Many people say sex is bad, but the truth is this, “sex is good” and I mean its “really good".

Its a very interesting act, trust me. You know whenever someone comes to tell me that sex was bad, I told the person He/She was lying.

Its very important to know that sex was created for pleasure and reproduction. Its a union between two souls for different gender.

Trust me, I meant it when I said two different gender.

Sex is to be enjoyed and not disposed off. Some people keep telling the youth that sex is bad.

Well the bullet point is this: This same youths get opposite gender friends for a relationship (boyfriend or girlfriend) and then fall in love and at the same time butterflies begin to fly in their stomach.

Its starts with holding of hands and receiving electronic waves through your hands and then it continues with a kiss, at this point, the kiss is so good. The guy falls dizzy because the kiss has knocked him out, the girl is swept off her feet because 

the kiss was good.

Then it graduates to touching, they feel it when they are touching every part of their body. The guy is touching the girls body (from the boobs to the ass) and the 

girl is touching the guys body from the chest (if the guy has any) to his God created man hood.

(Ok enough of this short romantic moment). But lets be sincere not all churches talk about this stuff and it kills youths day and night. True!

In this situation, they can remember what they heard at home, church, school, or at a function that having sex is bad. Now the question that runs through

their mind is this, if I know and I am told having sex is bad, then why do I feel this way when I am touched or when I touch?

You see, the truth is this: the reason why we hear that its bad to have sex is because our elders don’t want you to have sex now, also they don't want you to also have sexual transmitted diseases or get pregnant and raise a child when you are not married. 

Now this two couples eventually meet up at home or at a secluded environment all alone. This time again, they begin the routine of kissing, touching and finally they "take their panties off”

and begin to try what they know is bad “SEX". At that point in time, they know it is sweet, it is lovely, it is enjoyable, its beyond their definition.

When they are done, if they have a conscience they begin to fill bad, sad or guilty, else they just still like the sex so much and continue to do it without thinking twice. Well that is what practically happens 60% - 80% at times.

Ok, back to reality,

The truth is, sex is good, and having sex with the opposite gender has a timing or a period when this act should take place. Its like you have been on the bench for a soccer team. Then you decide to run into the the football field when it wasn’t your turn. Running into the game when its not your turn means

1. you create disorder in the field
2. you abnormally increase the number of the actively playing team members figure
3. you create trouble and disorder among the fans watching the match and your opponents would attack you
4. you have disobeyed the coach, and remember the couch is not saying its bad for you to play at the game
5. you loose the trust and respect of your team mates
6. you become a single player because no one of your teammates would like to pass the ball to you
7. you also get penalized or even banned from the game when you constantly carry out such actions 

You can also Read: SHE IS NOT WORTH IT(SIN)

So when is the right time for Sex?

The answer is Simple, 

Right from the time the world began, it has always and would always be that the man would wait pay the woman’s bride price and take her home legally before having sex with her.

Also the women knew that to keep their honor, they had to keep themselves for their husbands to-be until they were taken home by the man after fulfilling all the rights.

Yeah you might be saying in your head, this guy thinks He is perfect. No I’m not.

Lets forget about me and know that the timing of such event (sex) is of essence.

Yes, the most important thing is the timing of sex. I don’t mean having sex in the : day, night or morning. I mean the status of your relationship with that man/woman should be (married legally).

what makes sex so special is when you have it with the right person (your wife/husband).

The truth is, you must be married to have sex, and just to have sex with one and one person alone “your wife/husband”.

God ordained sex for our pleasure, and our pleasure only. And one of the aims of sex was to share a union between man and woman (married).

So if you are not married and you having sex, just know that it’s not fair.

You are pulling yourself from God’s presence and that’s not fair also.

This world is a dream, and our choices form the reality (after earth). God put's us in this dream to recreate the best events of His glory

by trusting, obeying and worshiping Him with our hearts.

So always have it in your heart that SEX is GOOD, and You have to WAIT for the RIGHT TIME (marriage) to really ENJOY it. Keep yourself Pure.

By Chizom Ebenezer Echehieuka